Assalamualaykum...
lama sungguh tak update.. since masuk new posting nih memang hardly find my own sweet time, even for rest.. Surgery is a simple and logical subject but the surgeons make our life a little bit miserable.. anyway, it is good for our own training to become a HO later.. just imagine we have to come early to the ward, at least before the HO come.. and i got out from my room at 7am everyday (except Friday, thank God..) which hardly done before.. balik mahalat dalam pukul 7pm.. argh.. tido tak cukup, makan pon kena pandai2 and dicatu (since scholar masuk lambat before nih..kamon la UIA!).. . this is the price that i have to pay in order to become a doctor.. but i realize that although i'm suffering now but since it's for the benefit of others, that makes me glad and proud enough.. and thanks to Mr Sunshine for understanding my situation and keep on supporting, comforting and believing me...
erm... a friend asking my opinion regarding her fren's prob.. 'A' is a doc-to-be, she's studying abroad in UK.. and 'B' whom her bf and they are planning to get engage in 1-2 months time.. however, she is still uncertain of her decision because B is not a doctor, but I'm not sure his real job is... A said that B's salary probably not as much as hers and she was afraid that B might felt inferior due to this difference.. my fren asked me, what would she said to A to comfort her.. well, this situation is so so common nowadays, since women are much more independent and able to obtain good job and salary.. but, the concept of 'rizq' (rezeki) does not depend on whether u have a good job or not.. rizq is not only wealth and money.. children, happiness, good health and many more are considered as rizq as well.. altho we are encouraged to work hard and do our job to the best extent but if Allah do not permit us to have a halal and blessful wealth, we are still considered as unlucky..
nak cakap BM pulak.. hehehe! walaupon mungkin B bukanlah same standard in terms of pekerjaan ataupun gaji kalo nak dibandingkan dgn A, tapi kalo B adalah seorang muslim yang baik dan sentiasa nak memperbaiki diri, itu lebih bagus daripada mendapat pasangan yang sama standard, gaji mahal dan handsome.. Allah tak pandang kerja dan harta kite apabila kite kembali pada Dia kelak, tapi Allah akan tanya apa yang kite lakukan dengan rezeki dan nikmat melimpah yang telah diberikan pada kita.. mungkin kite rasa kite rugi di dunia (especially kalo yang perempuan adalah high class grp) kerana telah memilih pasangan yang tak sama standard dgn kite, tapi cuba fikir jauh, jauh, jauh..... dunia nih kan tempat ujian untuk kite menentukan kat mane tempat kite di akhirat.. kalo kaya-raya kat dunia dan hidup senang tapi tak semestinya di akhirat akan jadi macam tu.. entah2, kite akan jadi orang yang paling miskin, hina, rugi dan tercela di akhirat kelak....
i'm not the best person to talk about this tapi pada kawan2 yang menghadapi masalah macam nih, nak memilih pasangan tu biarlah yang Allah redha dan mengikut apa yang Islam dah gariskan.. lihat lah pada agama dia, sama ada dia menjaga solat, puasa dan bolehkah dia menjadi suami dan ayah yang soleh... personally, saye rase kalo seorang lelaki tuh menjaga solat, taat pada parents dan baik akhlaknya, insya-Allah, future dia sebagai seorang suami dan ayah juga akan cemerlang... walaupun mungkin akan menghadapi masalah dengan parents kite, bagaimana nak meyakinkan mereka, tapi dengan doa dan pertolonganari Allah, everything will be okay... yang penting, jangan terlalu memandang hal keduniaan kerana itulah yang akan merugikan kita.. nak bersama dengan pasangan kite, biarlah sampai ke akhirat.. bukan setakat sampai akhir hayat...
last but not least, kite yang perempuan nih pun kenalah berusaha menjadi seorang yang solehah kalo nakkan pasangan yang soleh... Allah Maha Adil, dia akan berikan apa yang sewajarnya pada hamba-Nya yang sentiasa mengharap keredhaan..
tu je lah.. hope it will answer your prob, my fren... :)
p/s: semoga Allah makbulkan doa kite semua...
