tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11955857.post116694205963756953..comments2024-03-15T17:15:53.301+08:00Comments on .:Journey of Life:.: Currently...Hanin Farhanahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12608790858510277112noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11955857.post-1167748050898139582007-01-02T22:27:00.000+08:002007-01-02T22:27:00.000+08:00raudhatussakinah : hehehe.. itu resepi main belasa...raudhatussakinah : hehehe.. itu resepi main belasah jek.. tak sangka lak jadik.. anyway, insya-Allah nanti kami pi rumah pulakHanin Farhanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12608790858510277112noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11955857.post-1167747980781627692007-01-02T22:26:00.000+08:002007-01-02T22:26:00.000+08:00asma' : yup... memang payah le kalo nak suruh cari...asma' : yup... memang payah le kalo nak suruh carik yg 'setaraf' tuh... takpe, insya-Allah, Dia dah tentukan yang terbaik untuk kite.. doa banyak2, agar redha dengan apa yang Dia dah tetapkan...Hanin Farhanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12608790858510277112noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11955857.post-1167668276955263772007-01-02T00:17:00.000+08:002007-01-02T00:17:00.000+08:00:) thanks for the compliment.. jemput le keluarga ...:) thanks for the compliment.. jemput le keluarga ke rumah..sedap u all masak rendang n lontong....hebat2..Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11955857.post-1167586559563122212007-01-01T01:35:00.000+08:002007-01-01T01:35:00.000+08:00bak kata org tu...kalau nak kahwin, kenalah cari l...bak kata org tu...<BR/><BR/>kalau nak kahwin, kenalah cari lelaki yg bleh dibuat suami.. in future, dia jadi teman kat akhirat. bab2 pangkat n darjat ni Allah tak pandang dah..<BR/><BR/>tp of course, cakap mmg ler senang.. org yg mengalaminya saja yg tahu.. <BR/>sbb kita duk dlm masyarakat yg suka brckp hal org lain.. even though couple tu ok je, takde rasa inferior pun, tp sure akan ada org yg akan mengapi2kannya. so bersedia je la.. just make sure perkara ni dah dibincangkn awal2 la... :)) <BR/><BR/>p/s: huhu semput la kite2 ni kalu kena cari yg 'setaraf' konon2... dah la makin pupus, limited stock lak tu...boring.. heheh!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11955857.post-1167431991075548642006-12-30T06:39:00.000+08:002006-12-30T06:39:00.000+08:00Selamat hari raya eidul adha dan slamat tahun baru...Selamat hari raya eidul adha dan slamat tahun baru 2007.semoga kita sama-sama dapat penghayatan disebalik sambutan korban ini. :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11955857.post-1167107129573080032006-12-26T12:25:00.000+08:002006-12-26T12:25:00.000+08:00thanks... such a good point u have there.. and ins...thanks... such a good point u have there.. and insya-Allah, with His guidance, hope that our decision will be blessed by Him..Hanin Farhanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12608790858510277112noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11955857.post-1167048295984337322006-12-25T20:04:00.000+08:002006-12-25T20:04:00.000+08:00Saya setuju dgn cik hanin kite. Cuma nak tambah, f...Saya setuju dgn cik hanin kite. Cuma nak tambah, from hanin's cerita and info, i found that it's the girl who feels insecure about the inferiority issue. I dont know whether her bf ever really admit it to her. He might not feel the same way as she is! She might be the one who, subconsciosly, feels superior instead of the bf yang feels inferior. Whatever it is, I think if the issue really bothers her, she should communicate it with the bf before it's too late and affecting their relationship.<BR/><BR/>I think, career and financial issues are big matters to men in general. Men would want to be the ones who bring home the bacon. You can call it ego or anything, but I think it is only natural. In our religion pun, the husband should be the provider. So, communicate the issue with sensitivity and without patronising or assuming. <BR/><BR/>My point is, the couple have to work it out and make clear their feelings or opinions and compromise. Now, they might not mind the differences, as there are only two of them. Later, with kids, needing to buy a car(s), house, with her family, with his family (lelaki masih kena tanggung parents dia even after kawen kan?), with careers evolving etc, the issue might become more real to them. Mind you too that, suka atau tidak, orang2 lain pun akan 'bercakap'. Pekakkanlah telinga, tapi culture busybody ni tetap exist anywhere. Try to not let that get to you both. Tapi kalau yg 'bercakap2' tu adalah family sendiri, kena work hard sikitlah agaknye. <BR/><BR/>Ini cuma pendapat saya sendiri yg berada dlm situasi yg agak sama. I heeded my own advice, and we both talked it out and alhamdulillah, we compromise. Doakan yg terbaik buat kami ye ;) Juga pendapat saya based on a family i know yg sedang happy despite the differences they have. <BR/><BR/>All the best!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com